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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

"Men In Black 3" goes Gaga


Lady Gaga is set to make a cameo appearance in Men In Black 3, it has been revealed. During a promotional appearance in Rio last week, the movie's star Will Smith revealed that Poker Face singer Gaga will have a small role in the upcoming sequel. Smith was quoted by website ElCorilloRD.com as saying: 'We have a couple of celebrity cameos, but I think I can not reveal who they are. 'We must keep as a surprise that Lady Gaga appears.' Gaga had previously spoken about her desire to make a move into the acting world, telling Ellen DeGeneres last year: 'My dream would be to be in a Woody Allen movie.' The Men In Black franchise is no stranger to celebrity cameos, having seen the late singer Michael Jackson star in the second film. And the latest film also stars another pop princess in the form of Nicole Scherzinger, who will be taking on a villainous role in the movie, due for release in May. Thought: Lady Gaga as a space alien...not much of a stretch.

Get Him To Watch Chick Flicks...


Cosmopolitan gives us these crafty ways to persuade your man to see a movie devoid of car-chase scenes.

*Play down the mush factor
"Don't describe the film as a romance; call it a plot twisting drama," says Lorel Lindstrom, Ph.D., co-author of "Red Hot Relationships." Focus on the guy-friendly elements and he'll be more likely to bite.

*Make an offer
Tell him you'll gladly hit the venue of his choice afterward. Lindstrom says that dangling the idea of a reward for making you happy ups his interest.

*Swoon silently
Keep your Hugh Jackman crush to yourself. "Men don't want to be compared to over-achieving big-screen versions of what a boyfriend should be," explains Lindstrom.

*Bring it home
He'll be more likely to tolerate sappy scenes on the comfort of his own couch. Plus, it's easier to find a film at the video store that you'll both enjoy.

New York Shopping: Make-Up and Skin Care


My New York make-up and skin care shopping!
So far I'm really happy with the Caudalie skin care set, the eye and lip creme is the first creme that my skin doesn't over-react on! Jayyy! (I have a very sensitive skin) and I just love the porefessionally set I use as a primer! A little trick I learned is to dab a little eyecreme on top of your foundation around the eye-area when creases appear (works like a miracle!)

6 Urban Decay 24/7 glide-on eye pencil

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Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Facebook's Gettin' Fiesty!


Study: Facebook users getting less friendly


Women are much more likely than men to restrict their profiles.

People with the highest levels of education reported having the most difficulty figuring out their privacy settings. That said, only 2 percent of social media users described privacy controls as "very difficult to manage."

The report found no significant differences in people's basic privacy controls by age.

Young adults were more likely than older people to delete unwanted comments.

Men are more likely to post something they later regret.

Young adults were more likely to post something regrettable than their older counterparts

Whether it's pruning friends lists, removing unwanted comments or restricting access to their profiles, people are getting more privacy-savvy on social networks, a new report found. The report released Friday by the Pew Internet & American Life Project found that people are managing their privacy settings and their online reputation more often than they did two years earlier. For example, 44 percent of respondents said in 2011 that they deleted comments from their profile on a social networking site. Only 36 percent said the same thing in 2009. The findings come a day after the Obama administration called for stronger privacy protections for people who use the Internet, mobile devices and other technologies with increasingly sophisticated ways of tracking them. Pew's findings suggest that people not only care about their privacy online but that, given the tools, they will also try to manage it. Along those lines is "profile pruning," which Pew reports is on the rise. Nearly two-thirds of people on social networks said last year that they had deleted friends, up from 56 percent in 2009. And more people are removing their names from photos than two years ago.

LADIES: ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE?


(Glamour) Are you really in love? Run down this checklist of subtle signs and find out whether your romance is touch and go -- or a permanent connection.

"I know him inside and out." It's natural to focus on the external qualities you like about a guy -- his washboard abs, his smile, even his job -- but true love is all about appreciating what's inside the package, notes Robert Billingham, Ph.D., an associate professor of human development and family studies at Indiana University in Bloomington. Test yourself: In 30 seconds, name three character traits you admire about him. Stumped? You're still in the early phase of your romance.

"We usually see the funny side of most situations." Partners who laugh it up tend to stay together longer than those who don't, according to a study of 124 newlywed couples conducted at the University of Washington in Seattle. "Couples who frequently bring up shared jokes condition themselves to make light of tense situations, which in turn helps regulate a relationship's temperature," says researcher Sybil Carrere, Ph.D. "Even during a heated argument, they tend to use gentle humor to bring down the level of the conflict before it gets too out of hand."

"He's not fazed by the fact that I once cheated on my ex." Waving bye-bye to bygones proves that your affection is so cemented, neither of you is suspiciously anticipating future screwups, says Billingham.

"He considers my yoga class to be a fascinating topic of conversation." Couples who swap a lot of banter stay together longer than those who rarely exchange mundane musings, according to research conducted by John Gottman, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of Washington. So go on, talk about the weather or what you had for lunch; you're communicating in a no-need-to-impress mode, just the way you do in friendship -- which is what remains long after passion subsides.

"We want each other along on girls' or boys' night out." Sure, you two enjoy the occasional bar-hop or burger fest alone with pals. But if you've reached the point where you'd be happiest including your partner in most of your social plans, notes Billingham, you've shifted from the "me" mode to the "we" mode. Congrats.

Robot Baby...Creepy or comforting?


Creepy or comforting? A new study at a retirement home shows that the symptoms of depression in seniors were helped when they interacted with a "robot" baby. The Babyloid prototype costs around $25,718, but holding it for a mere 90 minutes a day, broken up into seven to eight minute sessions, was therapeutic. "The basic design, with a simplified, smiling face, was chosen to avoid the creepiness a realistic baby face can have, says developer Massayoshi Kanoh, a professor at Chukyo University in Japan. The mechanical infant can blink, smile, move its arms and flash red lights, which indicate it is content, and blue lights, which means it is unhappy and needs to be rocked to be comforted. It makes over 100 different sounds father of three Kanoh rerecorded his youngest daughter when she was an infant. It weighs almost five pounds and is about one and a half feet long. The theory behind the Babyloid is that by stimulating childcare, the elderly will feel useful, experience reduced depression and keep their minds sharp. Kanoh hopes that once the item is in mass production, it should retail for under $2,000 in the commerical market. (National Examiner)

The "Terrible 10" At Work


It's funny when the boss is rude and sarcastic on ''The Office'' or ''30 Rock,'' but what happens when the boss is boorish in the real world? In a word, trouble. And no one is laughing. The Civility Initiative at The Johns Hopkins University and the Jacob France Institute of the University of Baltimore surveyed employees and others in Baltimore to find out the worst examples of 9-to-5 incivility. The "Terrible 10" most rude workplace behaviors:

Discrimination in an employment situation.

Erratic/aggressive driving to and from work that endangers others.

Taking credit for someone else's work.

Treating service providers as inferiors.

Jokes or remarks that mock another's race/gender/age/disability/sexual preference or
religion.

Children who behave aggressively or who bully others.

Littering (including trash, spitting, pet waste).

Misuse of handicapped privileges.

Smoking in non-smoking places or smoking in front of non-smokers without asking.

Using cell phones or text messaging in mid-conversation or during an appointment or meeting.

Shopping: velvet blue tapestry boots

Jeffrey Campbell Yuma Fab from LFstores (or at Solestruck online)


Of course there was plenty of shopping while being in New York! I bought a lot of Make-Up and Skin Care products and yes, clothing and shoes too! The suitcase totally restricted me in shopping as I just didn't see any possibility (packing wise) in bringing back Anthropologie's tableware (ceramics) and heavy books. 

Luckily there was some space left for shoes to squeeze in and I found these on sale (50% off) at the LFstores in Soho. Now its just waiting for the weather to allow me to wear these bare legged with dresses!

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Monday, February 27, 2012

Rihanna Throws "Just Divorced" Party For Katy


Rihanna threw a "just divorced" party at Soho House for her best friend Katy Perry in New York last week to mark the end of her 14-month marriage to Russell Brand.

The girls were treated to gold leaf manicures using 24-carat gold paint costing 1,500 pounds a bottle.

"It was a light-hearted way of getting Katy to cheer up a bit after the past few months of messiness," the Daily Mail quoted a source as saying.

"Rihanna laid on magnums of champagne and kept the shots flowing while the girls had their gold manis," the source added.

The 'Umbrella' hitmaker had also organised Perry's Cirque du Soleil-themed hen party in Las Vegas in 2010.

You Can't Say "Man Cave"!?!?!?!


What do "amazing," "man cave" and "trickeration" have in common? They should all be banned! So say the guardians of the English language, whose day jobs are at Lake Superior State University in Sault Ste. Marie, MI. This group annually takes on the role of word police by collecting a list of words and phrases that we have used so much they have become annoying. So, here are 10 of the banned words and phrases on the 2012 list:

1. Amazing
Blatantly and incorrectly overused on television, especially on reality shows and by Martha Stewart and Anderson Cooper, this word is used for anything that is nice or heartwarming--but not necessarily amazing. What was once "awesome" is now "amazing."

2. Baby Bump:
Pregnancy has now been reduced to a celebrity accessory.

3. Shared Sacrifice
Usually used by a politician who wants other people to share in the sacrifice so he/she doesn't have to.

4. Occupy
'Occupy Wall Street' grew to become Occupy 'insert name of your city here' all over the country. It's been overused and abused.

5. Blowback
Often used by corporate types to mean "reaction," it also can be exchanged with "pushback" to mean resistance.

6. Man Cave
Not every man wants to hunker down in a room filled with a monster flat-screen TV, stuffed animal heads, a recliner the size of a 1941 Packard and Hooters memorabilia.

7. Pet Parent
Can a human being truly be a parent to a different species? Do pet "owners" not love their pets as much pet "parents" do?

8. Win the Future
A political phrase worn wherever you look--be it the left (President Barack Obama) or the right (Newt Gingrich).

9. Trickeration
This is a made-up word used by football analysts to describe a trick play. What's wrong with "trick" or "trickery"?

10. Ginormous
This is the combination of "gigantic" and "enormous. Either word is sufficient, but the combination just sounds ridiculous.

OUTFIT: D is for Dr Martens



wearing: Black dr Martens, Rebecca Minkoff Mac clutch, TopShop Lilac jamie jeans, H&M silver sweater


I just had to have some Black Dr Martens as well (so now I have a family of White, Mint and Black) I actually wanted to buy them in the New York store but they were sold out in my size completely! Luckily I found these at Asos online! 

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Saturday, February 25, 2012

INSPIRATION: Braids

photos via weheartit

Embrace your inner sloppy self, and wear with Dr Martens!

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Friday, February 24, 2012

THE EX FACTOR


Women's Health found out where "The Average Woman" stands on former flames:

55% think it is possible to stay friends

30% consider an ex to be "the one who got away"

72% check out his new girlfriend on Facebook

47% think they are hotter than his new girlfriend on Facebook

32% have told an ex they were dating someone when they were not

57% have hooked up with an ex

29% agree that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

43% have had breakup sex

27% have been stalked by an ex

30% have called a new guy an ex's name

Top 3 things she has done to an ex in order: drunk texted him, drunk dialed him, and gave away or sold his stuff

Alice + Olivia fall 2012

Alice + Olivia fall 2012 



It are the Bold graphic prints and Bold colors that start to grow on me after seeing various AW12 shows and presentations in New York. One of the returning prints in various colors that I saw in more collections is what I call the "dalmatian polkadot print" (keep an eye on that one) 

The Alice + Olivia presentation was very good, it was crowded but the overall atmosphere was like a party, kind of like the collection.. 

It was nice to meet up with other bloggers for a chat. Note that after the reward style party we all got the same Asos leather/leopard tote and thus on all events and shows there was a flock of bloggers (including me) with the same tote.. So by following the leather/leopard tote I easily found and rounded up my fellow blogger friends... priceless, I think it says a lot about how perfect this tote is that we all decided to wear it, knowing very well that everyone has the same tote!

After the discovering of a Magnum Ice-cream booth I became terribly distracted and I don't think I have ever eaten so many ice-creams in my life, it almost made me miss the little giftbag filled with Stila Make-Up (eyeshadow box) and yes.. a leather Magnum note book!

see the full Alice + Olivia collection here

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Thursday, February 23, 2012

The 'Darkside' Of Disney...


Eleven Darkest Disney Animated Movie Moments
Disney animated films aren't all sweetness and light. Here's our list of the studio's 11 darkest moments... Despite the studio being synonymous with holesome family fun, Disney's animated classics are trife with dark and unsettling moments. The kind of moments where you can't help but think, Crikey, this is a bit intense for a kid's film!" These are the moments which prompt you to look back to your own childhood, and remember nights of disturbed sleep and those confused questions to parents like, "Simba's dad will come back in the end won't he mum?" Some of these scenes are deliberately meant to be scary, some are uncharacteristically dreary, but some make the list purely due to their disturbing nature. Regardless of what makes such a scene so dark, there's one thing that connects them: they are all among the most memorable in Disney's impressive canon. Here's a quick glance at some of troubling moments that showcase Disney's dark heart...

Bambi
Bambi's mother dies
The classic tear-jerker. Years before Mufasa took an unfortunate tumble into a ravine (more on this later), Disney had already displayed its penchant for bumping off its heroes' parents. In its fifth animated classic, young Bambi and his mother munch away happily in a meadow, when the mum senses that a hunter is on the prowl nearby. A terrified mother and son flee desperately for their lives, scampering as fast as they can to the safety of the forest before – bang – a shot rings out. We then cut to a lone Bambi wandering alone through the forest, meekly calling out for a mother who will never reply. That's right kids, she'd dead. Shot. Slaughtered. Killed in cold blood. Such is the harsh reality of forest life. This is heavy stuff, considering the rest of the film is one of Disney's more twee offerings (the irony being, of course, that the original plan with Bambi was to show the shooting, only for it to be moved off-screen after concerns it would traumatise young children). If you were to compile a list of movie moments that had most traumatised young viewers over the years, you'd be able to put forward a pretty compelling case for this to be number one.

Robin Hood
Not in Nottingham
Not a scene as infamous as some others on this list, but it's one that always struck me as an incredibly downbeat moment in an otherwise light-hearted caper. In amidst the oo-de-lallys (I had to look up the spelling), the sing-songs and the robbing from the rich comes this depressing sequence, which basically sees the poor of Nottingham locked up for failing to pay their taxes. As the rain pummels down, the surprisingly American sounding cockerel, Alan-a-Dale, plays a mournful ditty on his lute:

Every town has its ups and downs.
Sometime ups outnumber the downs
But not in Nottingham
I'm inclined to believe, if we weren't so down
we'd up and leave.
we'd up and fly if we had wings for flyin'
can't you see the tears we're cryin'?
Can't there be some happiness for me?
not in Nottingham.

Meanwhile, the townspeople either shuffle about in iron chains, dragging eavy weights behind them, or are locked up in a tiny prison cell. Just when ou think things can't get any worse, Friar Tuck is arrested for attacking he Sheriff and led away in a noose. The rain continues to pour, and things ook pretty bleak for Nottingham all of a sudden. Wrongful imprisonment, a an of the cloth marched off to the stocks, and depressed fowl singing lyrics traight from the Johnny Cash school of melancholy. Gloomy times in ottingham.

Tarzan
Clayton's demise
Towards the end of Disney's 1999 take on Tarzan, it emerges that the Porter's one time guide, Clayton, is actually seeking to capture gorillas in the wild and take them back to England to sell. Tarzan and his gorilla friend Kerchak fight Clayton and, in the process, poor old Kerchak is shot. Tarzan then chases a maniacal Clayton through the dark jungle as a thunderous storm rages in the background. Tarzan manages to wrestle Clayton's shotgun away from him but rather than shoot the villain, he tosses the gun away. Not to be outdone however, Clayton pulls out a machete and chases after Tarzan once more. The two become entwined in the dense vines and a demented Clayton begins wildly hacking at the vines around him in order to get to Tarzan. Lost in his own rage, however, he fails to notice that one vine has wrapped itself around his neck. Inevitably, after hacking all the others down bar the one around his windpipe, Clayton faces a short, sharp drop. Then, after a quick shot of the vine taking the strain, we cut to a shot of Tarzan landing on the jungle floor. The lightning flashes and a silhouette appears of a lifeless Clayton hanging limply by his neck. The intensity of Clayton's actions and the violent storm really add to the disturbing nature of this sequence, and the sight of his still body hung from a vine, despite only being shown in shadow, is truly haunting.

Beauty And The Beast
The Mob Song – aka, Kill The Beast
It was a toss up between this and Savages from Pocahontas for the much-coveted 'horribly hate-filled Disney song lyrics' award, but ultimately, the increasing bloodlust of maniacal Frenchmen just edged out race-hate in America. This tuneful little ditty is sung by Gaston as he seeks to whip the villagers into a frenzy over the threat posed by The Beast. The song's lyrics were written for the film by the late Howard Ashman, who sadly died of an AIDs-related illness before the film's release. We wrote about this in greater detail in a Beauty And The Beast retrospective in 2010. With the tragedy surrounding Ashman's death in mind, the song's lyrics take on an even greater poignancy:

We don't like what we don't...
understand and in fact it scares us,
and this monster is mysterious at least.


This subtext of the villagers rounding on the unknown and a 'creature' ifferent from them is heavy stuff. Even without the subtext, though, it's a airly grisly scenario as the mob begin to come round to Gaston's thinking nd utter lines such as:

Bring your guns, bring your knives,
have children and and your wives,
to save our village and our lives!
let's kill the beast!

The lightning begins to crack, the rain begins to fall, and the bloodthirsty abble march up to The Beast's castle. Hardly preaching the virtues of nderstanding and tolerance which one might expect from Disney's raditionally family friendly movies.

Toy Story 3
The trash compactor
The most recent entry on this list comes courtesy of Disney-Pixar's Toy Story 3. The scene in question is not scary or shocking as such – rather, it shows toys in serious mortal peril and absolutely oozes tension. As Buzz and his friends seek to escape from a recycling plant's trash compactor, they overcome one obstacle after another before finding themselves forced towards a strange orange glow. As they are edged closer and closer, it soon dawns on them that it's a flaming furnace which would incinerate them all instantly. As the toys struggle in vain to fight against the tide, there's a moment which is both moving and deeply distressing. As they edge closer and closer to the flames, cowgirl Jessie looks desperately over to Buzz for a plan. Buzz, who up until now has always been so brave, determined and full of a never-say-die attitude, can do nothing but give her a reassuring smile and offer his hand. In this tiny gesture he appears to be admitting defeat and simply doing what he can to comfort his friend. If they are doomed to go down, they will go down together. The whole scene really shook me when I first saw it, the red glow from the flames giving the whole affair a hellish complexion. Seeing these characters, who you've grown to love over three superb movies, slowly edging towards their death with a grudging acceptance, was an incredibly powerful yet undeniably unsettling moment.

Fantasia
Night On Bald Mountain
Fantasia is an extraordinary piece of work that certainly stands out among other Disney animated classics. The movie sought to blend together animation and classical music, such as Tchaikovsky's Nutcracker Suite and Stravinsky's The Rites Of Spring. One of the most memorable moments is a haunting sequence towards the end of the movie, set to Russian composer Modest Mussorgsky's Night On Bald Mountain. After a good hour or so of light-hearted sequences involving dancing mushrooms and twirling hippos, this section features a mighty demon called Chernabog who sits atop of a gloomy mountain and terrorises the sleeping town below. Chernabog raises evil sprits from the dead and sends ghosts, ghouls and demons through the night sky to prey upon the townspeople in a chilling gothic nightmare. The wailing phantoms fit the powerful orchestral score perfectly, and it's a disturbing moment that sits in stark contrast to the rest of the picture. I wager this section was fastforwarded by many a parent when it was first shown to kids.

Dumbo
Pink elephants on parade
Not so much scary as just plain unsettling, this hallucinatory sequence in the much-loved Dumbo is a surreal nightmare. Pink elephants and multi-coloured blobs float and bounce their way across the screen as a wide-eyed Dumbo sits back in terror. Like in so many other entries on this list, part of what makes this section so unsettling is its great contrast to the rest of the film. One minute Dumbo is crying his little heart out over his incarcerated mother, the next he is hitting the bottle and heading off on a trippy bender that wouldn't be out of place in Fear And Loathing In Las Vegas. The ominous plodding music and clown-like smiling faces really escalate the creepy nature of Dumbo's visions, and it's no surprise he looks scared stiff. It's enough to warn kids of drink for life. Almost.

The Black Cauldron
The Horned King raising of the cauldron born
This lesser known, yet infamous, Disney movie from 1985 is fairly scary for youngsters the whole way through. The plot sees an evil Horned King seeking to obtain a magical Black Cauldron in order to use it to enslave the entire world. The Horned king is a frightening figure with a skeletal body and glowing red eyes lying beneath his cloak and hood, his low and menacing voice provided by the great John Hurt. Thanks to his evil ways, this became the first Disney movie to be given a PG certificate rather than a U. Most scenes with the King are fairly harrowing, but one which stands out comes when our young heroes Taran and Princess Eilonwy are trapped in his dungeon, littered with rotting corpses, and the King raises his army of the undead. These ghastly skeletal warriors spring forth from the cauldron and trudge onwards to help the King achieve his diabolical plan. It's no surprise that the Disney's animation chief of the time, Jeffrey Katzenberg, ordered several scenes from this sequence cut because their graphic nature (we're talking necks being slit open here) was deemed too disturbing for young viewers.

Pinocchio
Pleasure Island
It was only when I re-watched Pinocchio as an adult that I realised just how many bleak moments there are in Disney's second feature-length movie. Early on in the film, we see Pinocchio being effectively abducted by the angry gypsy Stromboli, who tosses the young puppet into a tiny cage and holds him captive in his wagon. Pinocchio sits alone swinging in the cage and quietly cries for his father. Yikes. Pretty harrowing stuff for the young viewer. It gets worse later on, though, as an alarming sequence of events sees a fat English coachman rounded up foolish young boys to take to Pleasure Island. Inappropriate innuendos aside, capturing children is always a fairly dark subject. Chitty Chitty Bang Bang's Child Catcher still haunts many a grown up's dreams I'm sure. The stand out scene in this whole storyline, though, comes once Pinocchio is on the Coachman's island and he and his buddy Lampwick are shooting some pool and smoking cigars. When Lampwick begins to sprout long ears and a tail, our young hero catches on that something is amiss and hurriedly tries to escape. Sure enough, very soon he himself begins to show the telltale signs of donkeyfication (probably not a word). The final shocking revelation comes when he finds a herd of the donkeys grafting away in secret salt mines on the island. It turns out that a turns misbehaving boys into actual 'jackasses', and then the Coachman forces them to work as slaves. Obviously, we know that our hero escapes, but it's worth noting that old Lampwick and the rest of the boys never get off the Island. They are left there to be mistreated and imprisoned for the rest of their days.

The Lion King
Mufasa croaks it
There are few moments more harrowing in Disney's canon than this legendary incident in The Lion King. After coaxing young Simba into an isolated valley and sending a herd of wildebeest stampeding down after him, evil Uncle Scar alerts his brother to his nephew's perilous predicament. But just when you think Mufasa has saved the day and rescued Simba, he's left hanging precariously from the edge of the cliff, his claws digging into the rock for dear life. Scar, of course, saunters over and, after plunging his claws into his brother's paws and spitting out a mocking "long live the King," sends Mufasa plunging to his death. Perhaps the darkest element of this sequence comes when young Simba reaches his dad's crumpled body and begins to gingerly tug at his fur, imploring him to get up. As the truth begins to dawn, Simba, begins to cry and cuddles up to the lifeless body. Scar, of course, arrives on the scene and proceeds to tell Simba that his father's death is entirely his fault, and that he must leave and never return. The ultimate act of villainy – not only does he kill the dad but he convinces the son that it was his fault. Surely a traumatic scene for any child.

The Hunchback Of Notre Dame
Hellfire
For me, the darkest Disney moment of all comes courtesy of one Judge Claude Frollo in The Hunchback Of Notre Dame. Judge Claude Frollo could very easily be the most despicable and evil Disney villain of all time. He starts off by murdering a young mother, then after being guilt-tripped into looking after her deformed baby (who he wanted to kill as well lest we forget) he confines the child to live in the cathedral away from public view. Frollo is further shown to be a nasty piece of work thanks to his pretty questionable views on race. He freely states that he sees gypsies as impure and makes clear that he wishes to slaughter the lot of them. Despite his hatred of gypsies, however, Frollo begins to lust after a young gypsy girl, Esmerelda. After he witnesses her conduct a seductive dance, he decides that if he can't have her, nobody will. The whole film is dripping in Catholic guilt, and Frollo's warped character is driven by a repressed sexual urge which he cannot resolve due to his devout religious views. The culmination of this comes in this deeply disturbing Hellfire song where, after seeing her perform the aforementioned dance, Frollo confesses to the Lord his deep temptation. Example lyrics include:

Like fire.
hellfire.
this fire in my skin.
this burning desire...
is turning me to sin

And:
don't let this siren cast her spell
don't let her fire sear my flesh and bone
destroy Esmeralda
and let her taste the fires of hell
or else let her be mine and mine alone

Ten Reasons You're Not Losing Weight

Not losing weight at the gym? Here's why. Losing weight is no easy feat. People fail for a number of obvious and not-so-obvious reasons. iMag went to fitness experts Gloria Vitolo and Mike Murray to learn how to avoid some common weight loss mistakes.




1. You stick to the same workout routine
Many gym-goers get too comfortable with their workout program. Your third week on the same elliptical program will not challenge your body the way it did in week one. Murray stresses the importance of adding variety to your workouts. "You should change your workout routine every three to five weeks. If you don't, your body will adapt to the program to the point it's no longer effective." Murray adds, "When your workout routine is no longer effective, you stop seeing results, get frustrated and are likely to quit altogether."

2. You don't write down your goals
Gloria Vitolo emphasizes the importance of writing out your weight loss goals and monitoring your progress. "Being able to look back at your goals will allow you to track your progress and provide you with motivation to thrust you forward." iMag recommends using one of these cell phone apps to help monitor your progress:

3. Your only goal is weight loss
Vitolo says she has countless clients tell her, "I want to lose weight." But she always replies by asking why that person wants to lose weight. "There's more to weight loss than a number," she says. Vitolo and Murray both make an effort to discover the underlying reasons their clients want to get healthy. Is it the fears of not seeing your kids grow up? Is it because you want to run a 5k with your daughter? Is it to better your self-esteem? Whatever the reason may be, keeping your underlying goal in mind motivates better than any target weight could.

4. You're on a fad diet
Vitolo has one piece of advice concerning fad diets: "Don't," she says. "If you restrict your calorie consumption too much, your body will adapt and learn to survive on that 'fad' amount of calories. When you go back to eating normally again, you gain weight. It's called the yo-yo syndrome."

5. All you do is cardio
Cardio is a great way to burn calories, but if you're not losing weight despite hours of cardio, it's time to try something new. "To lose weight, women need to fire up different muscle types that the treadmill and elliptical machines can't reach," Vitolo says. She recommends adding strength training to your workout, saying "it sculpts, tones, and trims all at once." However, women avoid strength training for a multitude of reasons: the weights are located in the male-dominated section of the gym; they fear strength training will cause them to bulk up instead of trim down, or they don't think weight lifting will have much of an effect on their bodies. In terms of the first hurdle, women interact with men every day; venturing to the male-dominated section of the gym exerts a sign of confidence, which is not only sexy, but important for women trying to improve their self-esteem. As for the other two excuses, don't be afraid of free weights. There are many different strength training plans that are geared specifically towards women who want to lose weight. To get started, try one of iMag's strength training exercises:

6. You let yesterday dictate today
We all know the drill; it's easier to skip the gym today because you skipped yesterday. Before you know it, you've skipped the gym for an entire week, and losing weight seems impossible. "It's never too late to get back on track," Vitolo says. "And get out of the mindset that it's okay to skip, because if you're really trying to lose weight, it's not!"

7. You listen to that negative voice in your head
Vitolo referenced a client who often complained she's too lazy for the gym. This is the same woman who worked a full-time job, ran a family and managed to have a social life. Likewise, many of us who call ourselves "lazy" are quite the opposite. So next time that little voice says "I'm too lazy for the gym," go ahead and talk back.

8. You exercise by counting calories
When it comes to weight loss, diet and exercise go hand-in-hand. But if you're not losing weight, you might be taking that statement too literally. Burning 500 calories on the treadmill is not going to erase the 500-calorie burger you had for dinner. Murray and Vitolo both advise against the concept of "exercising so I can eat this." Vitolo says, "Those 100-calorie snack packs might limit your caloric intake, but they add an abundance of processed chemicals into your body that will slow down the weight loss process. When choosing your food, stay as close to nature as possible. And remember, food is fuel. Don't exercise to work off food; let food work for you."

9. You lack social support
"It's no coincidence that overweight families tend to be overweight together," Vitolo says. When trying to lose weight, it's important to surround yourself with like-minded people. Friends and family who don't support your healthy initiatives can be detrimental to your diet and exercise plan – "This one burger won't kill you," they might tease. No, it won't, but each "it won't kill you" indulgence will add up, and eventually the numbers on the scale will too. "Try finding a workout buddy," Vitolo says. "Not only does it make working out fun, but it gives you an important sense of accountability." So don't be alone in your effort to get fit. iMag recommends connecting with others on one of these free weight loss social networks:

10. You need to hire a trainer
if you feel like you're doing all you can and are still not losing weight, hire a trainer. "Trainers always help," Murray says. "They get you to the gym, provide feedback, measure your results, and build a training program based on your likes." Just a limited number of sessions can launch you on the right track.

The Oscar Curse: Destined to Divorce?


(By Amber Milt) You may not be a stranger to celebrity divorce, but have you heard about the "Oscar curse"? It's a pattern that leaves leading ladies with a best actress statue, but without a spouse. Some claim that these divorces are just a result of men who cannot handle their wife's success. Whether famous or not, no one can argue that disproportionate success can put a strain on any relationship, but could there be something more? We took a look at seven talented, but unlucky-in-love ladies ... so you decide for yourself.

Bette Davis
1936 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "Dangerous"
The first victim of Oscar's Curse, Davis, shown here giving the Oscar to Marlon Brando in 1955, had been married to Harmon Nelson for four years before receiving her first Oscar in 1936. Three years later, in 1938, she divorced and went on to marry three more times, being once widowed and twice again divorced. She was nominated for three Oscars during her second marriage, which left her a widow, one Oscar during her third marriage, and one more during her fourth marriage. On an interesting note, Brando married in in 1957 and then also divorced two years later.

Joan Crawford
1946 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "Mildred Pierce"
An experienced divorcee, Crawford was married and divorced twice before she settled down with Philip Terry in 1942. Unfortunately, marital bliss ended four years later in 1946 -- the same year she won the Oscar.

Helen Hunt
1998 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "As Good as It Gets"
Hunt dated her long-time love, Hank Azaria for five years before marrying him in 1999. She came very close to escaping the curse - they got engaged in 1997; she won the Oscar in 1998; they married in 1999, and divorced in 2000. She has been in a relationship with producer/writer/director Matthew Carnahan since 2001, and they had a daughter in 2004 ... during which time she's never even been nominated for another Oscar.

Halle Berry
2002 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "Monster's Ball"
Berry, already a divorcee, wed Eric Benet in 2001, and then divorced in 2005 claiming that he had a sex addiction. Our verdict: Berry fell victim to the curse.

Hilary Swank
2005 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "Million Dollar Baby"
When Swank won an Oscar in 2000 (Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role for "Boys Don't Cry"), she was the third-youngest woman to ever take home the honor. The win was an amazing achievement for any actress, and a sign for Hollywood wives that perhaps the fabled curse had been broken. She and husband Chad Lowe seemed to be going strong until her second win in 2005 for "Million Dollar Baby." They divorced just one year later in 2006.

Reese Witherspoon
2006 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "Walk the Line"
As Hollywood's golden couple, Witherspoon and husband Ryan Phillippe, were certain to last - that is, until she won an Oscar in 2006. The couple separated in October 2006 and divorced in 2008. Witherspoon married agent Jim Toth in 2011, and hasn't been nominated since ... perhaps good news for the couple?

Kate Winslet
2009 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "The Reader"
Winslet's first marriage to director Jim Threapleton ended without any Oscar wins during their short-lived marriage from 1998 to 2001. Winslet married again in 2003, this time to director Sam Mendes. The couple survived two nominations during their marriage. It wasn't until she won in 2009 that the curse set in, and the couple announced their separation in 2010

Sandra Bullock
2010 - Best Actress in a Leading Role, "The Blindside"
Believing that opposites really do attract, Bullock and hubby Jesse James won over America with their "against the odds" attraction - she, "America's sweetheart" and he, the perennial "bad boy." After marrying in 2005, the couple appeared happy and strong. However, five years after tying the knot, Bullock would win a Razzie (for her performance in "All About Steve"), an Oscar, and find herself in the middle of a very public and humiliating divorce. After discovering that James had committed adultery, they divorced just months after taking home the cursed golden statue.

That's A Street?


According to a recent TheCarConnection.com poll, here are the top 10 list of wacky street names (all the roads are real and have been verified):

Psycho Path in Traverse City, Michigan

Divorce Court in Heather Highlands, Pennsylvania

Farfrompoopen Road in Tennessee (the only road up to Constipation Ridge)

The intersection of Lonesome and Hardup in Albany, Georgia

The intersection of Clinton and Fidelity in Houston, Texas

Bucket of Blood Street in Holbrook, Arizona

Unexpected Road in Buena, New Jersey

Shades of Death Road in Warren County, New Jersey

The intersection of Count and Basie in Richmond, Virginia

Tater Peeler Road in Lebanon, Texas

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

It's National Margarita Day!!


(longislandpress.com)
Today is Jimmy Buffet’s favorite holiday: National Margarita Day!

The margarita cocktail has long been associated with beach vacations and relaxing happy hours, but what is it? A margarita is tequila, mixed orange-flavored liqueur (usually Cointreau or Triple Sec) and lime or lemon juice with salt lining on the rim of the glass.

The International Bartenders Association lists the standard ratio as 7:4:3, or 50 percent tequila, 29 percent Cointreau and 21 percent fresh lime or lemon juice.

What’s great about the margarita is that it’s all about variety. You can get it shaken with ice, on the rocks, straight up, or blended with ice into a frozen slushee/smoothie of sorts.

There are several stories as to who invented the popular drink. Here are a few:

A bartender named Willie from Mexico City claimed that he invented the drink in 1934 for his friend Marguerite Hemery

The drink was allegedly developed by Carlos “Danny” Herrera at his restaurant in Tijuana in 1938 because customer Marjorie King was allergic to all hard alcohol except tequila and didn’t like its sour taste.

In October 1941 at Hussong’s Cantina in Ensenada, Mexico, bartender Don Carlos Orozco is said to have developed the drink while experimenting on a slow afternoon. He named it after the first person to try the cocktail, daughter to a German ambassador Margarita Henkel.

Dallas socialite Margarita Sames allegedly mixed up the concoction in 1948 for guests at her home. One of the guests was Tommy Hilton, who was so impressed with the drink that he added it to the bar menu at his hotels.

354 Facebook "Friends" Is Too Many...


Why You Shouldn't Have More Than 354 Facebook Friends?
(by Denny Watkins, Men's Health A recent study revealed that having 354 Facebook friends seemed to be the tipping point after which people were increasingly less happy with their lives. Here's why. Facebook used to be a source of amusement and happiness -- why else would 483 million people check in daily? But if you find your news feed to be more of a bummer with each passing day, you're not alone. In a study presented at the recent Society for Personality and Social Psychology meeting, researchers asked a sample group of Facebook users between the ages of 18 and 65 to read some of their friends' status updates. Afterward, those Facebook users rated their lives as much less satisfying than people who didn't check their news feed first. Among the group who read updates, the study revealed that having 354 Facebook friends seemed to be the tipping point after which people were increasingly less happy with their lives. The reason: Much of how we judge our success in life is based on how we stack up against our peers. "The problem is that Facebook gives us a limited view of our friends' lives, and that view tends to be unrealistically positive," says study author Dilney Goncalves, Ph.D., a marketing professor at IE Business School in Madrid. The more friends you have, he adds, the more likely you are to spend your day enviously reading about someone's paradise vacation, new girlfriend, or job promotion. (Do you update your statuses at least twice a day? Then you might be a narcissist.) Goncalves recommends unsubscribing from your most prolific braggarts and fine-tuning your news feed. You can choose to read all updates from a friend, downgrade to a smaller portion of their updates, or view only what Mark Zuckerberg's voodoo determines to be their "most important" posts. Another option: Cut ties with excess acquaintances to reduce your stream to best buds only. That means your dentist, your freshman year hall-mate, and your overbearing ex can all get the axe. (Read How Facebook Has Changed Sex.) When you've reached a comfortable count, "learning about the success of your closest friends can actually make you happier," Goncalves says.

OUTFIT: P is for Pastels





wearing: Mint Dr Martens, white H&M jeans, vintage lilac t-shirt and Pastel pink (silky) biker jacket


Not all Biker Jackets should come in Black and not all of them should be in Leather! Although I must admit; a perfect Black Leather Biker Jacket is a wardrobe must that I'm still missing!

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Tuesday, February 21, 2012

CLOSET ADVENTURES


Women's Health raided your closet and came back with the stats:

34% of women would rather get a dental cleaning than organize their bedroom closet

10% of women hire a pro to tackle the mess

25% of average woman's clothing never leaves the hanger, because it doesn't fit

5% of women ad clothing to their closets every week

69% of women say the bum economy has kept them out of clothing stores

19 pairs of shoes are in the average woman's closet

20% of women will never toss their wedding dress

23% of women stash sex toys in their closet

32% of women equally divide closet space with their guy

24% of women hog most of the closet space

56% of women admit to snooping in their guy's closet

12% of women don't snoop in their guy's closet for fear of what they might find

56% of women would rather have a walk-in closet than a diamond engagement ring

15 months is the amount of time the average woman would go without set for a closet full of new clothes

Things Only Women Understand:


Cats' facial expressions

The need for the same style of shoes in different colors

Why bean sprouts aren't just weeds

Fat clothes

Taking a car trip without trying to beat your best time

The difference between beige, ecru, cream, off-white and eggshell

Cutting your hair to make it grow

Eyelash curlers

The inaccuracy of every bathroom scale ever made

Other Women

NYFW streetstyle details via NSMBL.nl

photo via NSMBL










all photos by NSMBL.nl

I really have a thing for detail shots! 
Anna and partner in crime Sabrina from AfterDRK did an amazing job on street style details and outfits during New York fashion week! This is my little edit of favorites that made their way into my inspiration folder where they will influence future outfits and shopping (plus a possible diy) Do check out the full street style posts here, here and here for lots more great inspiration!


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Monday, February 20, 2012

Things You Didn't Know About 'I Will Always Love You'


You probably already knew that Whitney Houston's recording of "I Will Always Love You" is one of the biggest singles of the last 25 years... and the song that defined her legacy, as proven by its use as the lone ballad of homage to Houston at Sunday night's Grammys. Maybe you even know that a not-so-behind-the-scenes songsmith named Dolly Parton wrote and first recorded it, almost 20 years before Whitney spent a then-record 14 weeks at the top of the singles chart in 1992-93 with what turned out to be her signature song. But did you know that Kevin Costner is the one who found the song for Houston? That a cash dispute scotched an Elvis Presley recording of the tune? Or that Saddam Hussein was also a huge fan? Here are a dozen lesser-known facts about the power ballad that America and the world will always love: Dolly Parton wrote it about a professional breakup, not a personal one.

When Parton wrote it in 1973, it was as a farewell to her mentor, producer, and longtime duet partner, Porter Wagoner, with whom she never had a romantic relationship. Wagoner was reluctant to have her go solo, to say the least. "It's saying, 'Just because I'm going don't mean I won't love you. I appreciate you and I hope you do great and I appreciate everything you've done, but I'm out of here,'" Parton told CMT. "And I took it in the next morning. I said, 'Sit down, Porter. I've written this song, and I want you to hear it.'... And he was crying. He said, 'That's the prettiest song I ever heard. And you can go, providing I get to produce that record.' And he did." She even sang it on one of her last appearances on Wagoner's TV show in 1974.

Kevin Costner effectively usurped the role of music supervisor on "The Bodyguard," forcing it into the movie when another intended song didn't work out.The big finale of "The Bodyguard" was supposed to be a cover of "What Becomes of the Broken-Hearted." But when Costner found out that was being used in "Fried Green Tomatoes," he had to go back to the musical drawing board. That's when he came up with the Parton tune, which had previously only been associated with country-rock. It was also Costner's idea to begin Houston's version of the song a cappella. "I thought using no music at the beginning was a stupid idea," producer David Foster admitted to ABC News. But Costner insisted, and Foster said he was never so glad to be proven wrong.

Clive Davis didn't think the song would work for Whitney... at first.According to Costner, the reaction was less than unanimously enthusiastic when he told execs at Arista Records what the movie's big closing ballad would be. "When I said to Whitney, 'You're gonna sing "I Will Always Love You,"' the ground shook," Costner said. "Clive Davis and those guys were going, 'What?!'

It was Linda Ronstadt's cover version that was really responsible for Whitney Houston's cover. Ronstadt was the first major artist to cover the song, in 1975, bringing it to rock audiences a year after Parton had a hit with it. Some music fans still consider Ronstadt's version the loveliest. Costner certainly had a fondness for it: It was Linda's recording he knew and was a fan of, and her version that he took to Houston and Foster.

There was yet another version of the song in "The Bodyguard," that was even also released as a single... by a punk-rock singer! The song is first heard in the film in the background when Costner and Houston enter a bar. That version was by John Doe, singer for the L.A. punk band X and a frequent film actor in his own right. Funnily enough, though Doe also frequently works in the country idiom, his version was neither punk nor country but straight-ahead pop. The John Doe recording wasn't included on the blockbuster soundtrack album, but it was briefly released commercially... as a cassette single!

Houston recorded two different versions of the song -- one for the movie, one for the soundtrack album. Not everyone realizes that separate renditions of the tune were sung by Houston on celluloid and wax. Some Houston fans continue to insist the actual movie version, which was never released on CD, is superior.

"The Bodyguard" wasn't the first time the song had been a smash movie theme. Six years after she'd first had a country hit with the song in '74, Parton re-recorded it to add some seriousness to the otherwise levity-filled score of The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, the 1982 movie musical she starred in with Burt Reynolds.

Not only did Dolly Parton hit No. 1 with it, she did it twice, with separate recordings in separate decades.The Best Little Whorehouse version also hit No. 1 on the country chart, like her earlier rendition -- the first and still only time that's ever happened. (Parton recorded it in a third decade, too, in the '90s, as a duet with Vince Gill... but that third Parton version only reached the top 10.)

Elvis Presley was going to record it, but the deal was nixed over Colonel Parker's insistence on taking half of Parton's publishing. Parton thought it was a dream come true when Presley decided to cut the song, and she was even slated to visit him in the studio when he did. Then she was informed that Elvis wouldn't be recording it unless he got half the publishing royalties -- a mercenary custom instigated by manager Colonel Tom Parker that, sadly, kept Presley from getting to record a lot of great material later in his career. Parton refused the deal, which was heartbreaking at the time but ultimately served her well. "'I think stories like that are the reason why younger female artists say I've influenced them," she said.

"I Will Always Love You" was Saddam Hussein's re-election theme song! In 2002, the Iraqi leader held a bogus "referendum" on his leadership, blitzing election broadcasts on the airwaves of the nation's three government-controlled TV stations with "I Will Always Love You." Sadly, neither Houston nor Parton nor Ronstadt got the honor of helping Saddam keep his stranglehold on power. He used an Arabic version by Syrian star Mayyada Bselees. Like a lot of Americans before him, the soon-to-be-forcibly deposed leader didn't seem to get that "I Will Always Love You" is a breakup song.

New York fashion week diary




Threadsence and Shop Ruche amazing get together diner at Rubirosa (photos via Threadsence)
The homemade Mozzarella Sticks are out of this world and I can seriously recommend Rubirosa (located on 235 Mulberry street) for their fantastic food and atmosphere!



@ Lulu*s Style Studio event with Christina from Trop Rouge and Claire from De Lune. Last pic at the Reward Style party.


Bloggers front row at BCBG.


Alexa Chung stalked by photographers @ Lincoln center somewhere after the BCBG show.


Tadashi Shoji show with beautiful laces, chiffons and velvets in drop waist gowns, a collection inspired by the golden age of Shanghai.




@ the Bloglovin' awards with Yara, Sabrina, Anna, Nadia and the lovely Shae from Cheyenne meets Chanel!




Recognize the Models?




Fashiolista Party @ Blind Barber







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