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Showing posts with label Rants and Ramblings about Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rants and Ramblings about Life. Show all posts

Thursday, January 27, 2011

37 Ways to Make Women Smile

How do you make a girl smile? How do you make your woman smile? I am a woman and I should know what makes the female species smile. Here are some tips to make the girls smile. 

These are combinations of those I've discovered online and my personal tips of course. Don't forget to share this to your friends and yes do comment and express your views on this article.

1. Tell her she is beautiful. Women love compliments.
2. Hold her hand at any moment . Duration is immaterial, a second  makes women feel good.
3. Hug her from behind.
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her :) the funny way
6. Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.


7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9. Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.


16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of her t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with her cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally, and cards too.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its’n simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)


26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants (that is reasonable and you can afford)
28. Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time
31. If u care about her…SHOW her!
32. Always remind her that you love her.


33. Give her surprised gifts once in  a while.
34.  Cook something for her or Treat her with her favorite food. The best way to a man and a woman's heart is through his/her stomach.
35. Show that you care about her family and loved ones.
36. Don't talk too often about your ex. She might think you still love your ex.
37. Sometimes give her a soft massage after a tiring day at work.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Battling with Boredom and Idleness

I woke up today feeling better but still tensed. I had 1 slice of papaya and 2 pieces of banana plus coffee for breakfast. I am on a diet trying to look better and healthier after I gained 6 kilos the past months. Seeing myself squeezed on my favorite jeans is a poison to my eyes... one of the reasons I'd wish there were no mirrors invented..lol. What about the ugly feeling of being choked waist down to my legs, and not being able to breathe freely. Ughh! What a pain! I might be vain but we all are don't we? There are only a few things in life we could control and that includes looking and feeling good, or at least trying to look your best. It benefits everyone, except for your enemies perhaps. hahaha! Oops! I just laughed..that's a lot better. But on second thought, we laugh the hardest when we are at our weakest or loneliest.. :( whatever!

As you can notice, I'm writing again. Anything goes as I write considering the situation I am in. I just want to kill the slightest hue of boredom. Boredom and me are old time foes. We hate each other. When boredom strikes everything is just magnified- the pain, the agony, the worries. Thus, I barricade myself with the best forms of diversion. I also make sure my armory of "to do things" are full. I won't throw the white flag.. No, I will not rest on my bed and be absorbed in thoughts and idle silence. Lest boredom wins in our cold war.

So anyways, here are what I did today to irritate my foe -(Boredom)
  1. I woke up early and exercised...then had breakfast.

  2. I texted all of my friends, hence my phone almost didn't stop beeping

  3. I talked to my mother and everyone else in the kitchen as they prepared for lunch. And yes we talked about boys and silly stuffs.

  4. washed my clothes after eating my lunch. It took a few while for me to finish and I hurt my hands.. Oh well, maybe it's because of the harsh powdered detergent I used.

  5. I went facebook-ing and chatted with my friends. Facebook is a big help. It makes me forget about time.

  6. I updated this blog (ooops still updating..)
Time is so precious and it shouldn't be wasted in idleness or inactivity.. So I end this post and off I go to do another thing worthwhile..:)

Troubled.. Emotionally Ripped off!


I don't know what to write, as I am not composed and I am emotionally ripped off. I have a lot of things on my mind, things I so wanted to share with everyone but I succumbed to the idea that my problems and my worries are all mine to bear. I guess, I could only let you know I'm troubled. I will have to confine myself to my room, cry if I have to but in silence. I know I am supposed to be happy. I should be happy and wear that cheerful smile wherever I go. . But one can't really fake his feelings, well at least for me.. that's what I am.

The most useful things to do now are perhaps to entertain my thoughts and my emotions with other things.. like facebook or some cheap thrills from pc games, or tap my phone and exchange messages with good old friends.. I just love my friends. Their silly messages always make me smile..

I have thought about smoking just for plain curiousity's sake.. Oh the urge to try things that are forbidden or simply just against my principles, they get more intense when I have problems .So these stuffs get on my head. but yeah I won't try these things..

I guess there's a secretive side in me, although I still think I always express my mind. However sometimes silence and just zipping my lips give me a little of that peace I so want although it may wear off and am back drowning in unexplainable dilemma again.

For now I share my feelings, my sentiments, my worries and everything that's bugging my soul to my GOD. HE alone can give me relief, refuge, strength and peace. But I request you to pray for me, even if you don't know me and you don't know what am going through right now. Your prayers can do a lot. Thank you.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

11 Things I Hate About Men!


Just my serious two cents.. Instead of the usual 10 list, I'll add an extra 1. There are still other things I don't understand about men but for now I can only share 11..
  1. They won't ask for directions even though it's so obvious they're lost.
  2. They like to watch porn and naked girls on magazine. (glad not naked men ..lol..)
  3. They won't help with household chores.
  4. They think they are not vain.
  5. They complain about our shopping, high heel shoes and make ups, when we just want to look beautiful for them.
  6. They ask for our number but won't call or text.
  7. They invite us for a snack or dinner but can't spell out it's a date.
  8. They tell us we have beautiful eyes, wonderful body, but can't tell straight they like us.
  9. They forget birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions but remember very well basketball and NFL scores and players.
  10. They often times joke their feelings towards us.
  11. They hate to talk about their real feelings and want to keep us guessing.

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